To increase the capacity (grow or extend) of a VMFS datastore successfully, ensure that the device has been increased from the backend SAN.
Once completed, initiate a cluster level rescan to ensure that the Extent Device list contains updated list and then use the Increase option.
If the device for which size is increased from backend SAN is exposed to multiple hosts in multiple clusters, then cluster level rescan has to be triggered on all the clusters where device is visible.
VMware vSphere ESXi 7.x
VMware vCenter Server 6.7.x
VMware vSphere ESXi 6.7
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Performing a rescan of the storage on an ESX/ESXi host