This article explains why the "Unable to remove hosts since only a dead host can be force removed" error occurs during host decommissioning in SDDC Manager.
Decommissioning a host from a vSAN cluster satisfies all the criteria described in article Permanently Decommissioning a node from vSAN Cluster.
SDDC is unable to remove the host from cluster followed by this error:
VCF 5.x
VCF 9.x
The SDDC Manager removal task is designed for hosts that are powered down. This error is expected if the host is powered on and the cluster has reached the FTT (Failures to Tolerate) threshold.