FATAL o.a.g.t.p.i.d.JMXDataUpdater [qtp640736196-56] Failed to retrieve RMIServer stub: javax.naming.CommunicationException [Root exception is java.rmi.ConnectIOException: Exception creating connection to: xxx.net; nested exception is: 
 java.io.IOException: Unsupported protocolTLSv1.2 TLSv1.3]
java.io.IOException: Failed to retrieve RMIServer stub:
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Caused by: java.lang.IllegalArgumentException: Unsupported protocolTLSv1.2 TLSv1.3
Gemfire 10.1.3
The key line in the exception stack trace is 'Unsupported protocolTLSv1.2 TLSv1.3'
Possible causes for this error are:
As stated in the documentation, while specifying ssl-protocols you can list them separately or use 'any' if permitted by the Security team.
As the doc states,
"ssl-protocols: A comma-separated list of the valid protocol versions for TCP/IP connections with TLS encryption enabled. A setting of ‘any’ attempts to use your JSSE provider’s TLSv1.3, or TLSv1.2 if v1.3 is not available."
For example, this would translate to,
JMX_MANAGER_SSL_PROTOCOLS=TLSv1.2,TLSv1.3, when connecting securely to Gemfire JMX Manager
and
CLUSTER_SSL_PROTOCOLS=TLSv1.2,TLSv1.3 for secure inter-cluster communication