esxtop shows bidirectional network traffic on the VM connections.Windows Defender Firewall profiles are blocking ICMP (ping) traffic in the VM.
Verify that the virtual machine guest operating system Windows Defender firewall settings are configured properly.
Verifying and Configuring Windows Defender Firewall Profiles
Check Advanced Settings
Modify Firewall State
Note:
It is recommended to configure application-specific inbound rules to allow ports (such as RDP, ICMP etc.) rather than completely disabling the firewall.
To edit the specific inbound rules, please refer Configure Firewall Rules With Group Policy | Microsoft Learn or engage Microsoft Support for further assistance.
Run esxtop via a Putty session, then hit the 'n' key for networking, the VM's connection status and vmnic can be determined from the list.
For related information, see Troubleshooting virtual machine network connection issues (1003893)