VMware vSphere ESXi 7
VMware vSphere ESXi 8
This behavior is expected if the NIC card supports RDMA/RoCEv2 and the RDMA feature is enabled, as port 4791 is an assigned port for RoCEv2 (IP Routable RoCE).
Workaround:
https://enterprise-support.nvidia.com/s/article/HowTo-Enable-Disable-RoCE-on-VMs-via-VFs-ConnectX-4-onwards
https://forums.developer.nvidia.com/t/disable-roce-and-handle-roce-packets-as-normal-udp-packets/211524/4
https://www.vmware.com/docs/the-basics-of-remote-direct-memory-access-rdma-in-vsphere
https://techdocs.broadcom.com/us/en/vmware-cis/vsphere/vsphere/6-5/view-rdma-network-adapters.html#GUID-B7446AA8-83EE-44A0-95EA-EF95EC800D40-en