This restriction on the VMware Tools user service with remote desktop connections is to prevent multiple concurrent instances of the VMware Tools user service running which otherwise can lead to crashes and issues.
In Windows, as part of the user logon process, the Windows registry key 'HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Run\VMware User Process' is processed and the VMware Tools user service is started.
When the user logs on at the local console explicitly or by Autologon, the VMware Tools user process continues.
When the user logs on at the remote desktop connection console, the VMware Tools user process will stop as expected.
If Windows Server OS is set to Automatic login for an account and is used with Remote Desktop connection, it will depend on whether the session is local or remote when the Windows registry Run key is processed and launches the VMware Tools user process, you may or may not see the process present.
Note: For VMware Tools versions 11.0.x or newer, this restricted behavior of the user service is limited to Windows Server versions only.