VMware is aware of this issue.
The only workaround when Fault Tolerance (FT) is required to protect virtual machines is to keep HA enabled.
Note: This issue does not occur if there is an NFS datastore mounted to a host. When a NFS datastore is mounted, the NFS client opens a large number of ports, including those used by FT. Therefore, the FT virtual machines remain protected irrespective of whether the FT ruleset is enabled or disabled.